Staying Decent In HereProverbs 11:1

Make The Number Look Better

This message is for the reader asked to present a figure in a way that is not quite false and is not true

Nobody at work has ever been asked to lie. That is the whole difficulty.

Picture the man at his desk. His manager has asked him to present the quarterly figure more positively. That is the actual phrase. More positively.

What that means, in practice, is measuring it from a different starting month, which is defensible, and excluding one category, which is also defensible, and putting the comparison against a year that happened to be bad, which anybody could argue for.

None of that is false. Every individual choice could be justified in a meeting. And the result is a number that will give the people reading it a wrong impression of how the quarter went.

He knows this. His manager knows it too, although his manager has not said so and may not have said it to himself either.

And here is the trap. There is no moment in that process where he is being asked to do something wrong. There is only a series of defensible choices, and the wrongness is in the sum rather than in any of the parts.

Which means if he objects, he has to object to something that on paper is not objectionable, and he will be asked which specific choice he disagrees with, and he will not have a good answer, because each one on its own is fine.

That is why this kind of thing works, and why decent people participate in it for years, and why almost nobody has a word for what is happening.

The image is a set of scales

There is a line in Proverbs about exactly this, and the image chosen is a piece of equipment rather than a spoken lie.

A false balance is abomination to the LORD: but a just weight is his delight. (Proverbs 11:1, King James Version)

A false balance.

Not a false statement. A balance is the scale, the mechanism, the thing through which everything else gets measured. A trader with a false balance never has to say a single untrue word. The scales do it for him.

Which is precisely the arrangement in front of this man. He is not being asked to say anything false. He is being asked to adjust the mechanism through which a true number gets weighed.

You have been asked to adjust the balance rather than to tell a lie, and Proverbs 11 puts the abomination on the instrument rather than on the speech (Proverbs 11:1), and the Holy Spirit is the one who gives a person the word for a thing they could feel and could not name.

And that is what he has been missing. He has been looking for a lie, and could not find one, and concluded that his discomfort must be oversensitivity. Scripture had the category all along and it is not about speech at all.

You have not been oversensitive, and Proverbs 11:1 names a mechanism rather than a sentence and calls it an abomination (Proverbs 11:1), and the Spirit of God is the one who was the discomfort in the first place.

Just weights, just measures

There is a passage in Leviticus about business practice that is more specific than most people expect the Bible to be.

Just balances, just weights, a just ephah, and a just hin, shall ye have: I am the LORD your God, which brought you out of the land of Egypt. (Leviticus 19:36)

Four different measuring instruments listed by name.

And then the reason, which is not a moral argument. It is a piece of history. I am the LORD your God, which brought you out of Egypt.

The reason for honest scales is who a person belongs to and what was done for them. It is not a rule about commerce, it is an identity applied to a set of weights.

You are keeping honest measures because of who you belong to, and Leviticus 19 gives the exodus as the reason rather than a commercial argument (Leviticus 19:36), and it is the Holy Spirit who makes an identity mean something at a desk on a Thursday afternoon.

And there is a second proverb that closes off the obvious escape route.

Divers weights are an abomination unto the LORD; and a false balance is not good. (Proverbs 20:23)

Divers weights. Different weights for different occasions, which is exactly what selecting a start month for one report and a different one for another actually is.

You are being asked for two different weights depending on the occasion, and Proverbs 20 names that specifically as divers weights (Proverbs 20:23), and the Spirit of God is the one who gives somebody the clarity to see one thing being done in two steps.

What this is not

Let me be plain, because this could send somebody into a fight they cannot afford.

This is not telling him to refuse the instruction, or to go over his manager's head, or to make a stand in a meeting. Only he can see what any of those would cost, and this article cannot.

It is also not saying his manager is corrupt. Most people doing this genuinely believe they are presenting things well rather than misleading anybody. That is how the arrangement survives.

And it is not saying that all presentation is dishonest. Choosing how to show a figure is a real skill and most of it is entirely legitimate.

And plainly: if what is being asked of you has crossed into something actually fraudulent, that is a different situation and it needs somebody qualified rather than an article. And if the pressure has reached the point where you cannot get out of bed, or some part of you wants it all to stop, call or text the 988 crisis line and say the true version out loud to a doctor or a counselor or a pastor you trust.

You are not being sent into a confrontation, and Proverbs 11 names the instrument rather than issuing anybody instructions about their manager (Proverbs 11:1), and the Holy Spirit is the one who knows what a person can afford and what they cannot.

The breakthrough

So here is the turn, and it happens before the work rather than instead of it.

You are able to keep an honest measure, and Proverbs 11:1 puts the just weight and the false balance side by side as two available instruments (Proverbs 11:1), and the Holy Spirit is the one who takes an image about trading scales and lays it over a spreadsheet on a Thursday.

Now the counterfeit, and in a compliant man it sounds like humility about his own judgment. It says: you are not senior enough to have an opinion about this. Look at the shape of that. It names the man rather than a thing, it opens no door, and its only instruction is to stop noticing what he can clearly see. Conviction from the Holy Spirit names one specific thing and always opens a door in the same breath.

You have not been disqualified from seeing what is in front of you, and Proverbs 20:23 names divers weights without any reference to anybody's rank (Proverbs 20:23), and that work belongs to the Spirit of God, who has been at that desk for every quarter and knows exactly what each number actually was.

Nothing here promises the instruction stops coming. It probably does not. What is settled is that the mechanism rather than the sentence is what Scripture names, that honest measures are described as a matter of belonging, and that a man who keeps hold of the true figure has kept something real.

Declare this over yourself

Say these out loud, at the desk before you start or in the car afterward. You are in Christ, and that is what makes the authority to speak over your own work delegated rather than invented. God names a false balance rather than a false sentence, so speak to the instruction that has no honest version, and then leave the outcome to Him.

  1. Instruction that has no honest version, you are not a small thing and I am not required to find one. The Word of God says a false balance is abomination to the LORD, and it names the instrument rather than the speech.
  2. Voice that calls me too junior to see, you are put out in the name of Jesus. Proverbs 20 says divers weights are an abomination, and it does not mention anybody's rank at all.
  3. Father, Leviticus 19 says just balances and just weights shall ye have, and gives Egypt as the reason. I write the true figure down before I build anything, and I thank You that Your Spirit has been at this desk for every quarter of it.

Why we ask you to say these out loud

The word this stands on

Proverbs 11:1

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