Staying Decent In HerePsalm 139:7

Nobody Would Ever See It

This message is for the reader asked to cut a corner that genuinely nobody could ever find

The hard version of this is not the one with a risk in it.

Picture the man being asked. There is a step in a process that takes about ninety minutes and that almost never turns anything up. It is a verification step. In nine years he has found something wrong twice.

And he has been told, not in writing and not quite as an instruction, that on the smaller jobs it does not really need doing.

And that is true. It probably does not. On the smaller jobs the risk is genuinely low.

And here is what makes it hard rather than easy. Nobody would ever find out. There is no record of whether it was done. There is no audit. The person who told him will never ask. If he skipped it for the next four years, no human being on earth would know, and it would probably never cause a single problem.

So the entire question rests on him, and only on him, and there is nothing else in the room.

That is a strange and lonely position to be in, and almost nobody talks about it because it does not sound like a moral dilemma. It sounds like an efficiency question, and everybody around him treats it as one.

But he knows it is not, and the reason he knows is that he has noticed himself constructing arguments for it while driving home, and a man does not construct arguments for an efficiency question.

The psalm asks it as a question

There is a psalm about God being everywhere, and the striking thing about it is the form it takes.

Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence? (Psalm 139:7, King James Version)

It is a question, not a warning.

That distinction is enormous. The verse could easily have been written as a threat. God sees everything, so behave. That is how it usually gets preached and it is not what is on the page.

What is on the page is a man wondering where he could possibly go, and then working through the options one by one, and the tone of the passage is not fear. It is something closer to wonder, and the psalm ends with him asking to be searched, which is not what a frightened man asks for.

You are not being watched by an inspector, and Psalm 139 asks the question in wonder and ends with a man requesting the search rather than dreading it (Psalm 139:7), and the Holy Spirit is the one who makes that a presence rather than a surveillance.

And that changes the whole shape of the man's ninety minutes. He has been treating this as a question about whether he could get away with something, which is a question about being caught. The psalm is not about being caught. It is about there being no room anywhere that is not already occupied.

You are working inside an occupied room rather than an unmonitored one, and Psalm 139:7 finds no place to flee to and treats that as a wonder (Psalm 139:7), and the Spirit of God is named in that very verse as the one whose presence fills it.

The darkness and the light

The psalm goes on to the specific case, which is the unlit place, which is exactly where this man's ninety minutes live.

Yea, the darkness hideth not from thee; but the night shineth as the day: the darkness and the light are both alike to thee. (Psalm 139:12)

Both alike.

Which means there is no such thing, in that psalm's account of the world, as a place where a thing is genuinely unseen. Not because a camera is hidden somewhere, but because the categories of seen and unseen do not apply the way they do for people.

You have no unseen place available, and Psalm 139:12 says the darkness and the light are both alike rather than saying that God looks harder (Psalm 139:12), and it is the Holy Spirit who makes that a settled fact rather than an anxiety.

And Hebrews puts it in a phrase that is worth having in a pocket.

Neither is there any creature that is not manifest in his sight: but all things are naked and opened unto the eyes of him with whom we have to do. (Hebrews 4:13)

With whom we have to do.

That is the phrase. It is not a legal formula. It is relational. It describes somebody a person deals with, in an ongoing way, which is a completely different arrangement from being observed.

You are dealing with somebody rather than being monitored by them, and Hebrews 4 ends with the phrase him with whom we have to do (Hebrews 4:13), and the Spirit of God is the one who makes that a relationship rather than an audit.

What this is not

Let me be plain, because this could become scrupulosity, which is its own kind of harm.

This is not saying every efficiency is a compromise. Sometimes a step genuinely is unnecessary and dropping it is good sense rather than a corner cut.

It is also not telling him to raise it, or to insist on the ninety minutes in a meeting, or to become the person who will not proceed without every box ticked. That would make him unemployable and would not be integrity, it would be a personality.

And it is not saying that a man who skips it once has fallen. That is not the scale of this.

And plainly: if what is being asked of you has crossed into something that could actually hurt somebody, that is a completely different situation and it needs raising with somebody qualified rather than resolving in a car. And if you cannot get out of bed, or some part of you wants it all to stop, call or text the 988 crisis line and say the true version to a doctor or a counselor or a pastor you trust.

You are not being asked to become impossible to work with, and Hebrews 4 describes a relationship rather than a compliance regime (Hebrews 4:13), and the Holy Spirit is the one who can make a man careful without making him rigid.

The breakthrough

So here is the turn, and nobody will ever see it happen.

You are not standing in an unwatched place, and Psalm 139:7 asks where a man could go and finds nowhere, in wonder rather than in fear (Psalm 139:7), and the Holy Spirit is the one who takes an ancient question about presence and lays it over ninety minutes of a verification nobody checks.

Now the counterfeit, and here it is at its most reasonable, because it says something completely true. It says: nobody would ever know. Look at the shape of that. It is accurate, it opens no door, and it names the only thing that has ever mattered here as though it were the argument that settles it. Conviction from the Holy Spirit names one specific thing and always opens a door in the same breath.

You have not been handed an argument that touches the actual question, and Psalm 139:12 says the darkness and the light are both alike rather than saying anybody will find out (Psalm 139:12), and that work belongs to the Spirit of God, who has been on every one of those jobs for nine years and knows which ones had the ninety minutes in them.

Nothing here promises anybody notices or that it ever pays. It probably never does. What is settled is that there is no room that is not occupied, that the phrase is him with whom we have to do rather than him who is watching, and that the only person who would ever know is the one this has always been about.

Declare this over yourself

Say these out loud, in the truck or the yard at first light. You are in Christ, and that is what makes the authority to speak over your own work delegated rather than invented. God is described as somebody with whom we have to do, so speak to the argument that nobody would ever know, and then leave the outcome to Him.

  1. Argument that nobody would ever know, you are true and you have never once been the point. The Word of God asks whither shall I go from thy spirit, and finds nowhere, and asks it in wonder rather than in fear.
  2. Idea that an unseen place exists at all, you are put out in the name of Jesus. Psalm 139 says the darkness and the light are both alike to thee, so there was never an unlit room to work in.
  3. Father, Hebrews 4 calls You him with whom we have to do, which is a dealing and not a surveillance. I do the unseen part properly today and I say so out loud afterward, and I thank You that Your Spirit has been on every one of those jobs with me.

Why we ask you to say these out loud

The word this stands on

Psalm 139:7

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